the "V" question.

i've just finished watchin this korean drama series ( one pf the episode) coz im free and have nothin much to do..and damn.lol

i've forgotten the title but it start at 11.15pm and ends at 12.15am. at the korean channel on Astro.(man...im hook to their shows and all)lol

its a story bout this gurl last time during college she stayed with a guy. im not clear whether they're engage in a r/ship or not (hey,ive only watch one episode of it laaaa) but then later when she worked she met this guy then got married. she got pregnant with the husband then it was all happy family...NOT. apparently the Parents of the Guy that she got married too knew her past bout staying with a guy for two years without marrying. the MOm in law of the gurl..(head of the family) was FURIOUS. to the point of not having the pregnant gurl get kicked out from the house, the gurl's dad have to beg for forgiveness..on behalf of the daughter.

so..this and that..the family was in turmoil and all. should see how she treated her including the dad in law. once the mother in law came back early from work..( the gurl wasnt allow to eat with them) so the dad in law have to put rice including the other veggies and all into a mixing bowl. and ask her to stay upstairs and eat. they treat her like a dog. thats very inhuman,...i know the guys reading this would say its just a drama..but i cant help feeling very bad for this gurl. come on..she's pregnant..give her a break.

the point is not really bout the drama..its bout how asians really value virginity..especially in gurls..hm, regardless of religion now. its so scary that its just past..every already happened. if she really had sexual relationship with the roomate during her college years..its already past. the husband also accepted the fact that she is indeed was not a virgin anymore (lets say if she did) i duno...i suddenly have the urge to talk bout this..based biblical views..yes. she slept with sumone b4. and if she repent and all..God recovers her, healed her past wounds and all. she's a new creation..!

hm..lets say this thing happens in real life..hey..its not a taboo already. i knew a couple of ppl..experience it.its their freedom of choice. anyway..if anything goes wrong i hope both parties would be responsible for it. especially when it involves a third party..like a baby>? listen guys..if u really want to do it with anybody, condom please. and tips..dont try to use two condoms together..LOL. u think its more safe? think again. two rubber material rubbing together..cause friction..tear much faster. *gulp disaster.LOL/ remember that.

anyway,yes..its modern now..ppl care less bout all these stuffs but. i dun wanna sound hy[pocrite and all that. i make a pledge on sex before marriage.but i wont condemn anyone who did it b4 or wadever..just be responsible. (and tell me bout it)lol..learning 1st hand. sounds icky, but yea.

*haha...if i've offended anyone outhere readin this...im sorry..
*ji eun..is all this mention just now bout the korean culture just only happens in the dramas or also in real life..?nid to shed sum light to it..LOL/ Xp